
Francis & His Brothers: A Popular History of the Franciscan Friars by Dominic Monti by Dominic Monti (2009)
Identity and Mission of the Religious Brother in the Church by CICLSAL (2016)
Living with the Monks: What Turning Off My Phone Taught Me about Happiness, Gratitude, and Focus by Jesse Itzler (2019)
Oranges From Dominic’s Tree: Selected Poems by Dominican Friars, Sisters, and Laity by Matthew Powell (2015)
Perfect Joy: 30 Days with Francis of Assisi (2016)
The Love of Learning and The Desire for God: A Study of Monastic Culture by Jean Leclercq O.S.B. (1960)
The Monastery of the Heart: An Invitation to a Meaningful Life by Joan Chittister (2012)
Monks: A Day in the Life of a Monk by request.org.uk: https://request.org.uk/resource/life/meet-a-christian/the-life-of-a-monk/
Friars: Become a Franciscan: A Life for Others by Franciscan Friars of the Renewal: https://www.franciscanfriars.co.uk/become-a-franciscan
Monks: Becoming a Monk by Abbaye de Saint-Benoît-du-Lac: https://www.abbaye.ca/en/learning-about-the-abbey/becoming/
Friars: Becoming an Augustinian by Augustinian Vocations of North America: https://www.beafriar.org/blog/categories/becoming-an-augustinian
Friars: Being Franciscan by Sacred Heart Catholic Church: https://sacredheartfla.org/about-us/being-franciscan/
Friars: Friar: A member of one of the mendicant orders by Catholic Answers: https://www.catholic.com/encyclopedia/friar
Friars: Hearing the Call at a Young Age by breakinginthehabit.org: https://breakinginthehabit.org/2016/04/25/hearing-the-call-at-a-young-age/
Friars: Is God Calling You to Become a Friar? These Six Tips Will Help You on the Way by Kevin J. Banet (2022): https://www.catholic365.com/article/24203/is-god-calling-you-to-become-a-friar-these-six-tips-will-help-you-on-the-way.html
Friars and Monks: Monks, Friars and Brothers by Pat McCloskey, OFM (2025): https://www.franciscanmedia.org/ask-a-franciscan/monks-friars-brothers/
Monks: Steps to Becoming a Monk by Saint John’s Abbey Vocations: https://www.abbeyvocations.org/becoming-a-monk
Monks: Vocation – Benedictine Monks by The Benedictine Monks: https://www.benedictinemonks.co.uk/vocation/
A Right to Be Merry by Mother Mary Francis P.C.C. (2021)
Cloister and Community: Life within a Carmelite Monastery by Mary Jo Weaver (2002)
Joy Within His House: A Cloistered Nun’s Reflections on Following Christ by Sister Mary Magdalene of the Immaculate Conception Prewitt Op (2025)
Millennial Nuns: Reflections on Living a Spiritual Life in a World of Social Media by The Daughters of Saint Paul (2021)
New Habits: Today’s Women Who Choose To Become Nuns by Isabel Losada (1999)
Nuns – What are they for? (CTS Onefifties) by Maria Boulding OSB (2017)
Reflections on Faith: Life in the Cloister by O.S.B. Sister Mary Agnes and Agnes Repplier (2025)
Sister Freaks: Stories of Women Who Gave Up Everything from God by Rebecca St. James (2005)
The Ear of the Heart: An Actress’ Journey from Hollywood to Holy Vows by Mother Dolores Hart O.S.D. (2018)
The Joy of God: Collected Writings by Mary David and St. Cecilia’s Abbey (2020)
The Narrow Door: 33 women. A “Yes” that Changes Everything by Father Augustus (2025)
Franciscan Sisters, T.O.R. – For The Families: https://www.franciscansisterstor.org/vocations/for-the-families
My Daughter Is Already Discerning Religious Life by Karen Estep (2025): https://www.catholicmom.com/articles/my-daughter-is-already-discerning-religious-life
My daughter the nun: How parents can influence vocations by Angelus News (2015): https://angelusnews.com/local/california/my-daughter-the-nun-how-parents-can-influence-vocations/
So Your Daughter Wants to Become a Nun by Madeline Pecora Nugent: https://www.franciscanpenancelibrary.com/so-your
Vocation Letters: Helping Parents Understand by marburydominicannuns.org: https://marburydominicannuns.org/blog/vocation-letters-helping-parents-understand
A Parent’s Guide for Vocations by Fr. Todd J. Petersen (2012)
A Priest in the Family: A Guide for Parents Whose Sons Are Considering Priesthood by Fr. Brett A. Brannen (2014)
And You Are Christ’s: The Charism of Virginity and the Celibate Life by Thomas Dubay (1987)
Called By Name: The Inspiring Stories of 12 Men Who Became Catholic Priests by Dr. Christine Anne Mugridge and Jerry Usher (2011)
Forming Families, Forming Saints by Fr. Carter Griffin (2024)
Raising Catholic Kids for Their Vocations by John and Claire Grabowski (2019)
Resting on the Heart of Christ: The Vocation and Spirituality of the Seminary Theologian by James Keating (2009)
The Joy of Priesthood by Stephen J. Rossetti (2005)
The Sacred Heart and the Priesthood by Mother Louise Margaret Claret de la Touche (2009)
To Save a Thousand Souls by Fr. Brett A. Brannen (2010)
Why Celibacy?: Reclaiming the Fatherhood of the Priest by Fr. Carter Griffin (2019)
Why Priests Are Happy: A Study of the Psychological and Spiritual Health of Priests by Stephen J. Rossetti (2005)
Parents of Vocations: https://parentsofvocations.com/
Seminarian Parents: Parents’ perspectives on a Catholic vocation journey by seminarianpriests.com: https://seminarianparents.com/
Advice from Parents of Priests by Diocese of Davenport: https://davenportdiocese.org/advice-from-parents-of-priests
Catholic Parents by Archdiocese of Portland: https://archdpdxvocations.org/resources/catholic-parents/
For Parents: Six Myths About Priesthood for Parents by Archdiocese of Chicago: https://vocations.archchicago.org/where-do-i-begin/for-parents
Parent to Parent: Real Answers to Frequently Asked Questions by DCPriest: https://dcpriest.org/parent-to-parent/
Parents Resources: Parents Page by Diocese of Trenton: https://godiscallingyou.org/parents-resources/
Mommy, I Want to Be a Priest by Rebecca W. Martin: https://www.catholicmom.com/articles/2016/08/24/mommy-want-priest
Mothers, Encourage Your Sons to Be Open to the Priesthood by Catholic Exchange, Constance T. Hull (2025): https://catholicexchange.com/mothers-encourage-your-sons-to-be-open-to-the-priesthood/
The Family – Think Priest: https://www.thinkpriest.org/The-Family
Towards the Grace of Uncertainty: When My Son Wants to Become A Missionary by Rubianto Satrio: https://rsatrio.com/2020/05/22/towards-the-grace-of-uncertainty-when-my-son-wants-to-become-a-missionary/
A Guide to Religious Ministries for Catholic Men and Women by Nancy Lappin (2014)
A Right to Be Merry by Mother Mary Francis (1956)
And You Are Christ’s: The Charism of Virginity and the Celibate Life by Thomas Dubay (1987)
Called by God: Discernment and Preparation for Religious Life by Rachael Marie Collins (2017)
Come and Follow Me by Stefano Manelli (2000)
Forming Families, Forming Saints by Fr. Carter Griffin (2024)
Paths of Love: The Discernment of Vocation According to Aquinas, Ignatius, and Pope John Paul II by Joseph Bolin (2008)
Raising Catholic Kids for Their Vocations by John and Claire Grabowski (2019)
The Monastery of the Heart: An Invitation to a Meaningful Life by Joan Chittister (2012)
When God Asks for an Undivided Heart by Fr. Andrew Apostoli (1995)
Vita Consecrata by Saint Pope John Paul II (1996)
For Families by Dominican Nuns, Marbury Alabama: https://marburydominicannuns.org/families
For Parents: Office of Vocations by The Roman Catholic Diocese of Phoenix: https://dphx.org/office-of-vocations/for-the-parents/
Home of the Mother – The Consecrated Life (2017): https://www.homeofthemother.org/en/magazine/selected-articles/spiritual-life/8272-consecrate-life
Parents of Vocations: https://parentsofvocations.com/
Resources for Parents by Office of Vocations, Diocese of Springfield, MA: https://www.myvocation.com/resources/for-parents/
Vocation Resources for Parents and Families by USCCB: https://www.usccb.org/beliefs-and-teachings/vocations/vocation-resources-families
Vocation Resources for Parents by Christ the Redeemer Catholic Church: https://ctrcc.com/vocations-for-parents
Vocation Resources for Parents by Tertiary Sisters of St. Francis: https://tertiarysisters.org/vocations/for-parents/
When we help Catholic men and women who have been called to religious life serve Jesus, we serve Him too.
No task is too small. No act of kindness is too little.
PDF DOCUMENT: Support Religious Vocations and Consecrated Life
Religious Communities often have a variety of tasks to perform to keep operations running. Ask if there is any way you can assist.
Baking or cooking a large dish that the community can enjoy will often be appreciated. Do not forget to ask about allergies and food restrictions.
Ask the community if they are open to receiving new vocations. If so, ask for a card or some information you could give to people in your local parish community.
Do you know how to make a website? Build a barn? Fix a roof? Are you a nurse? Lend your services without charge.
Start a carpool group with your parish so multiple parishioners can lend their services.
Catholic children are the future of the Catholic Church. If religious life is close to their hearts as children, it is more likely to be in their hearts as adults.
Catholic children are the future of the Catholic Church. If religious life is close to their hearts as children, it is more likely to be in their hearts as adults.
Each film can focus on a different religious vocation of the Church (i.e, priests, nuns, monks).
Organize a time for priests and religious to speak to your students about vocations.
Each time the students meet, they can do different activities associated with different saints in religious life (i.e., Saint Francis of Assisi was a friar).
Provide the religious community with your own fresh milk, cheese, jams, vegetables, or fruit.
Do you have a car? Do you like driving? Offer to drive members of the religious order to doctors’ appointments, do their shopping, or complete other errands. This helps them save on gas and time.
Start a carpool service (or grocery service) with fellow parishioners for the religious order.
Never underestimate the power of prayer. Pray for the community/order independently or host a weekly or bi-weekly prayer group.
What are you good at? Where do you thrive? What does the religious order need? Put these together, and there will be success.
Cloister and Community: Life within a Carmelite Monastery by Mary Jo Weaver (2002)
Cloister Talks: Learning from My Friends the Monks by Jon M. Sweeney (2009)
Flowers of The Cloister by Sister Mary Wilfrid La Motte (2011)
Praying the Hours by Suzanne Guthrie (2000)
Inside the Cloistered Life: Personal Letters of a Carmelite Nun by Sr. Marie of the Trinity (2024)
Reflections on Faith: Life in the Cloister by O.S.B. Sister Mary Agnes and Agnes Repplier (2025)
Saint Clare of Assisi: Light from the Cloister by Bret Thoman OFS (2017)
The Cloister Walk by Kathleen Norris (1996)
The Story Of Saint Clare Of Assisi: Life story and nine days novena, litany, devotions and prayers to the light of Assisi by Cole M. Gabriel (2024)
The Wisdom of the Cloister: 365 Daily Readings from the Greatest Monastic Writings by John Skinner (1999)
A Nun’s Life Ministry (anunslife.org)
chartreux.org
Cloistered Life (cloisteredlife.com)
A Day in the Life of the Passionist Nuns (Passionist Nuns of St. Joseph Monastery, 2022)
Day in the Life of a Cloistered Nun | w/Poor Clare Sister John Marie #cloister #nun #religiouslife (Kept In Her Heart, 2025)
Hidden: A Life All for God (The CatholicTVNetwork, 2019)
Life in Hidden Light (Carmelite Monastery, 2017)
Passionist Nuns Vocation DVD 2007 (Passionist Nuns of St. Joseph Monastery, 2021)
Real to Reel – Visitation Sisters, Part 1 of 2 (Diocese of Springfield Massachusetts, 2011)
Telling your parents you’re joining the cloister | Poor Clare convent (Kept in Her Heart, 2024)
The Call to Carmel: The Carmelite Nuns of Sioux City (Carmelite Nuns, 2024)
The Charism of the Carmelite Sisters (Archdiocese of Brisbane, 2022)
The web designer who became a cloistered nun (Times of Malta, 2025)
Two #Augustiniansisters say the cloister opens “unexpected horizons” (Rome Reports in English)
A Day in the Life: Benedictine Monks of Mount Angel Abbey (MountAngelAbbey, 2025)
Benedictine Monks of St. Anselm’s Abbey: A Day in the Life (Vocations Outreach: Religious Life & Discernment, 2020)
Benedictine Monks (O.S.B.), Aurora, IL, Marmion Abbey [8562] (VISION Vocation Guide, 2023)
Inside a Cistercian Monastery (Rick DeSanctis, 2020)
Small order of monks living hidden lives in South Canterbury hills | Sunday (1News, 2022)
Trappist Cistercian Monks (O.C.S.O.) Peosta, IA, New Melleray Abbey [8642] (VISION Vocation Guide, 2025)
Trappist Cistercian Monks (O.C.S.O.) Piffard, NY, Abbey of Genesee [8641] (VISION Vocation Guide, 2023)
Trappist Cistercian Monks (O.C.S.O.) Trappist, KY, Abbey of Gethsemani [8645] (VISION Vocation Guide, 2021)
Watchmen of the Night – Benedictine Monks of the Barroux Abbey (MaroonLion, 2019)
What’s It Like to Become a Monk? (Journeyman Pictures, 2017)
“Work, Prayer, and Fruitcake: Meet Virginia’s Trappist Monks” (Arlington Catholic Herald, 2023)
Cell: A monastic term for the individual room of a sister or monk where one can pray and work in solitude, as well as read and rest.
Chapter room: A room near the choir in some communities where the members come together each day for the procession to the choir before Lauds and Matins, as well as for the Solemn “Salve” and community meetings.
Nuns in the choir, wearing mantles and praying the Divine Office. Maybe one of them is the hebdomadary.
Choir: The chapel within the enclosure where the sisters or monks gather for Mass, the Divine Office, and other prayers throughout the day.
Clappers: A stationary piece of flat wood to which are attached two loose pieces of wood, one on each side. By holding the handle and moving one’s wrist back and forth, the loose boards clap against the stationary one. The clappers is used instead of a bell at certain times during the day.
Collation: The light meal taken in the evening during the time of the monastic fast, September 14 to Easter day.
Communion window: A small opening in the choir grate in some communities used for receiving Holy Communion at Mass as well as for the reception of the veil at a sister’s solemn profession.
Cowl: Choir mantle with long, large sleeves; worn for the Office except for the Little Hours and on warm summer days.
Divine Office: In his Rule, St. Benedict uses this term to indicate the organization of the prayers covering the whole day.
Domestic bell: A small bell used inside some monasteries to call individual sisters or monks who have special duties or offices, such as the prior(ess), subprior(ess), etc. It is also used for some of the Hours of the Divine Office when the tower bells cannot be rung or may not be heard throughout the monastery where the members are working.
Great Silence: The time of strict silence prescribed by the Rule from after Compline in the evening until after Lauds the next morning.
Hebdomadary: The sister or monk whose duty it is to begin and end the Hours of the Divine Office and the Solemn “Salve,” and to lead the prayers at the graces before and after meals. A hebdomadarian is the one who carries out this task.
Lectio divina: A time for prayerful spiritual reading, such as the Holy Bible, the Fathers of the Church, the lives of the saints, spirituality, theology, etc.
Mantle: A long cloak worn by some nuns during Holy Mass and Liturgy of the Hours
Night silence: Silence is kept by the nuns or monks from the end of Compline till the end of Prime the next morning, save in an emergency.
Novitiate: Strictly speaking, this refers to that part of the monastery reserved for the use of those in formation. This initial formation includes from the time one enters the monastery until the end of the second year of simple vows. The sisters or monks in formation are sometimes referred to as “the novitiate.”
Recreation: A time for communal sports and relaxation.
Refectory: A large room where members take their meals in silence.
Stall: The place assigned for a nun or monk in the choir.
Vigils: The night Office, 15 minutes after Compline.
This information is from cloisteredlife.com
*Nota Bene: This list is not exhaustive and does not contain every cloistered saint or blessed.*
Blessed Anne of St. Bartholomew (Discalced Carmelite)
Blessed Antonia of Florence (Poor Clares)
Blessed Cunegundis of Hungary (Poor Clares)
Blessed Cyprian Michael Iwene Tansi (Trappist)
Blessed Maria Candida of the Eucharist (Discalced Carmelite)
Blessed Maria Gabriela Sagheddu (Trappist)
Blessed Jane Scopelli (Discalced Carmelite)
Blessed Teresa of Saint Augustine (Discalced Carmelite)
Saint Agnes of Assisi (Poor Clares)
Saint Agnes of Montepulciano (Dominican)
Saint Agnes of Prague (Poor Clares)
Saint Andrew Corsini (Discalced Carmelite)
Saint Anselm of Canterbury (Benedictine)
Saint Berthold (Carmelite)
Saint Brocard (Carmelite)
Saint Bruno of Cologne (Carthusian)
Saint Catherine of Bologna (Poor Clares)
Saint Catherine of Ricci (Dominican)
Saint Clare of Assisi (Poor Clares)
Saint Colette of Corbie (Poor Clares)
Saint Elizabeth of the Trinity (Discalced Carmelite)
Saint Euphrasia Eluvathingal (Discalced Carmelite)
Saint Eustochia Smeralda Calafato (Poor Clares)
Saint Hildegard of Bingen (Benedictine)
Saint Jane Frances de Chantal (Visitandines)
Saint John of the Cross (Discalced Carmelite)
Saint Margaret Mary Alacoque (Visitandines)
Saint Maria Maravillas of Jesus (Discalced Carmelite)
Saint Mary Magdalen de’ Pazzi (Discalced Carmelite)
Saint Mary of Jesus Crucified (Discalced Carmelite)
Saint Odilo of Cluny (Benedictine)
Saint Rafael Arnáiz Baron (Trappist)
Saint Robert of Molesme (Benedictine, Cistercian)
Saint Scholastica (Benedictine)
Saint Teresa Benedicta of the Cross (Edith Stein) (Discalced Carmelite)
Saint Teresa Margaret Redi (Discalced Carmelite)
Saint Teresa of Ávila (Discalced Carmelite)
Saint Thérèse of Lisieux (Discalced Carmelite)
Saint Teresa of the Andes (Discalced Carmelite)
Saint Veronica Giuliani (Capuchin Poor Clare)
Formation is the process by which we grow spiritually, intellectually, and personally. In consecrated life it follows certain standard methods and proceeds through established stages.
These will vary from place to place, as they’re tailored to each community’s particular charisms and goals. But, generally speaking, a candidate will move — from discernment to final vows — through at least some of the following stages.
1. Preparation. Learn about yourself, God, and the Church. Build relationships. Do research. Explore.
2. Discernment/Inquiry. Meet with a vocation director. Visit the community. Make a retreat. Ask for a formal application.
3. Application. Gather your sacramental certificates and academic transcripts. Fill out the application. Schedule your physical and psychological exams and complete your medical forms. Compose the statements the community requires.
4. Postulancy/Candidacy. This is the time of transition into community life. Postulants and candidates help with the community’s ministries and begin to learn the unique spirituality of the community.
5. Novitiate. This is a longer period, often two years, of intensive theological, personal, and spiritual formation.
6. Canonical year is a time of deeper prayer and focused studies.
7. Apostolic year is a time of in-depth focus on the ministries of the community — often spending time in active service.
8. First profession. At this time a candidate professes vows for a determined length of time, but with the intention of making final, permanent vows.
9. Temporary vows mark a time of integration of vows, community, prayer, and ministry.
10. Final profession marks the solemn, formal commitment of one’s whole life to God within a particular community.
11. Ongoing formation. A person committed to consecrated life is committed to lifelong spiritual and personal growth. The community never ceases to form its members.
Information from calledla.org/formation